Should the NFL suspend players for things they have not been found guilty of?

The NFL is a company and like all companies, P & L is based on largely on perception. If someone is harming that perception by putting themselves in situations that you have asked that player in the past not to put themselves in than you have the right to take actions that will help to put the perception of that league back on track. Ben shouldn't be with college students in sleazy bar bathrooms and more importantly he shouldn't have guards telling people they weren't allowed to go back there.